Guys & Gals

When you are extremely down you look for a good friend to lean on , to cry on or to be your morale support but are they thinking the same?

Why are guys so selfish to use an injured heart to get what they want for themselves
is it fair?

In a name of helping they make use of us without even realising they are hurting us eventually why is that so?

Why fake when u are not genuine in the 1st place?

Why can't a guy be a good friend to a girl without reminding the girl that after all HE is a typical guy too?

Why does a guy talks sweetly nicely like a real gentlement but when you meet him its the complete opposite and further more they come with their motive already fixed ?

I simply just can't get the answers for these questions. The way guys think is so much different from a girl.

What a girl really mean.........

When a gal say she is feeling down what a girl need is a shoulder to cry , listening ear or a comforting hug not sex.

When a gal cry the gal expect the guy to wipe the tears and maybe hug her or atleast hold her hands and tell her 'Im here for u' not to say 'hey you must forget this and move on'. Obviously we gals know we got to move on.

When a gal talks about her past give a listening ear don't give critisizing remarks.

When a gal look for you is because she needs someone... she is hurt and lonely. She is not asking for a sex partner. And for god sake sex cant nurse an injured heart all the time. I just dont know how guys get the mindset that sex can cure everything and make you forget things. If it cures its a temporary thing after that the pain is there but it will become worst. The existing pain and one more is a question a gal will get deep in her heart ,why am i being used like this? Pleasure is a few minutes thing but the guilt is ever there for long in a gal's heart which alot of guys do not realise.

And its true when they say Woman are from Venus & Mens are from Mars.